I actually said this to Phelan today as we wrapped up a 2 hour phone call. Towards the end of it, we were discussing the next time we will see each other and it came to the natural part of recurring dialogue where you say you miss the the other person...and that didn't happen.
I felt it coming up and instead I blurted out "I don't even miss you!" At first, he laughed but his chuckle had a trace of intrigue. I shared with him a realization I had about a year and a half ago. I discovered that by way of counting down to calendar destinations, I was actually stealing away my own presence and by default, wishing my life away.
We agreed that we don't actually miss each other. We are SO present in each others lives! Between FB, insta, WhatsApp, snapchat, texting, calling, snail mail, and carrier pigeon...we certainly have every means possible to shrink the geographical distance currently between us.
Also, the strength of this man's love can move a mountain, making the Sierras seem like molehills and the desert seem like a sand box. I do not feel apart or alone. I feel loved, supported, and lifted up. There's no way I could miss you, my dear.
You are with me always. ❤
I love you.
Who is someone you would like to acknowledge for the way your bond disappears time and distance!?!?
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